(type a number from 1-9)
1. She shows
her thoughts and feelings in the way
looks and acts, but does not talk much about what she thinks and about how
2. She is considerate and thoughtful of other people.
3. She is a warm person and responds with kindness to other
4. She gets along well with other people.
5. Her peers look up to
her and seek her out.
6. She is
helpful and cooperates with other people.
7. She likes physical affection. (For example,
she likes to hug;
she likes to be held.)
8. She likes to keep
her thoughts and feelings to
9. She makes good and close friendships with other people.
She has friendships that don't last long; she changes friends a
She tries to blame other people for things she has done.
She starts to act immature when
she faces difficult problems or
when she is under stress. (For example, she whines or acts out.)
She tries to see what and how much she can get away with.
She usually pushes limits and tries to stretch the rules.
She is eager to please.
She shows concern about what's right and what's wrong.
16. She is proud of the things
she has done and made.
She acts very feminine.
She lets her peers know it when
she is upset or
angry. She doesn't hold back her feelings when she feels upset or angry with them.
She is open and straightforward.
She tries to take advantage of other people.
She tries to be the center of attention.
She tries to get others to do what she wants by playing
up to them. Acts charming in order to get her way.
She is nervous and fearful.
She worries about things for a long time.
She thinks things out and reasons like a very mature person.
She is physically active.
She enjoys playing sports, running,
She looks different from other people
her own age.
She is energetic and full of life.
She is protective of others.
She protects people who are close
30. Most authority figures (e.g., teachers, professors, work
supervisors) seem to like her.
She is able to see how others feel; she can put herself in their place.
She gives, lends, and shares things.
She cries easily.
She is restless and fidgety; she has a hard time sitting still.
She holds things in.
She has a hard time expressing herself; she's a little bit uptight.
She finds ways to make things happen and get things done.
She likes to compete; she's always testing and comparing herself to other people.
She has an unusual way of thinking about things--for better
or for worse, she puts things together in her head in a different way than other people would.
She freezes up when things are stressful, or else keeps
doing the same thing over and over.
She is curious and exploring; she likes to learn and experience
She is determined in what she does; she does not give up
She is an interesting person; people notice
her and remember her.
She can bounce back and recover after a stressful or bad
She gives in or backs down when
she has a conflict or
disagreement with others.
she is under stress,
she gives up and backs off.
She tends to go to pieces under stress; she gets rattled when
things are tough.
She has high standards for
herself. She needs to do very
well in the things she does.
She needs to have people tell
her that she is doing
well or ok. She is not very sure of herself.
She has specific habits or patterns of behavior. (For
example, she taps her fingers, bites her fingernails, stutters or bites
She tends to get sick when things go wrong or when there is
a lot of stress. (For example, she gets headaches, stomach aches, throws up.)
She is well-coordinated. (For example, she does well in sports.)
She is careful not to get hurt (physically).
She has a hard time making up
her mind; she changes her
mind a lot.
She has unpredictable moods--they change often and quickly.
She worries about not getting
her share of material
things, food, or love. She seems afraid she won't get enough.
She is jealous and envious; she wants what other people have.
She exaggerates about things that happen to
her; she blows
things out of proportion.
She openly shows the way
she feels, whether it's good or
She is neat and orderly in the way
she dresses and acts.
She gets nervous if she is not sure what's going to
happen or when it's not clear what she is supposed to do.
She tends to be judgmental of the behavior of others.
She is obedient and does what she is told.
She is fast-paced; she moves and reacts to things quickly.
She is calm and relaxed; easy-going.
she wants something,
she wants it right away. She has a
hard time waiting for things she wants and likes.
She pays attention well and can concentrate on things.
She plans things ahead;
she thinks before she does something.
"Looks before she leaps."
She is a very smart person (even though formal tests and
evaluations, such as grades in school, might not show this).
She has a way with words; she can express herself well with
She daydreams; she often gets lost in thought or a fantasy world.
She often asks authority figures for help and advice.
She often feels guilty; she is quick to blame herself, even
though she might not talk about it.
She has a sense of humor--she likes to laugh at funny things.
She usually gets wrapped up in what she is doing.
She is cheerful.
She can be trusted; she's reliable, and dependable.
She feels unworthy; she has a low opinion of herself.
She has her feelings hurt easily if she is made fun
of or criticized.
She is suspicious--she doesn't really trust other people.
She teases and picks on
She can talk about unpleasant things that have happened to
She speaks up and sticks up for
herself; she goes after what she wants.
She tries to be independent and do things without the help
of other people. She tries not to rely on other people.
She is a talkative person; she talks a lot.
She is aggressive. (For example, she picks fights or starts
She likes to be by
herself; she enjoys doing things alone.
She tries to copy and act like the people
she admires and
looks up to.
She is self-confident and sure of
herself; she makes up her own mind on her own.
She is able to do many things well; she is skillful.
She is stubborn.
She has emotions that don't seem to fit the situation. (For
example, she either overreacts, doesn't seem to care, or sometimes
her reactions just don't make sense.)
She is attractive, good-looking.
She is bossy and likes to dominate other people.
She whines or pouts often.
She lets little problems get to
her and is easily upset.
It doesn't take much to get her irritated or mad.
She is creative in the way
she looks at things; the way
she thinks, works, or plays is very creative.
She likes to dream up fantasies; she has a good imagination.
She is shy; she has a hard time getting to know people.
She thinks about
her actions and behavior; she uses her head before doing or saying something.
often pick on her; she is also often
blamed for things she didn't do.
She is the kind of
person almost everyone likes.
She is talkative.
She tends to find fault with others.
She does a thorough job.
She worries a lot.
She likes to reflect, play with ideas.
She tends to be quiet.
She is considerate and kind to almost everyone.
She tends to be disorganized.
She is relaxed, handle stress well.
She has few artistic interests.
She is someone with whom people really enjoy spending
She is outgoing, sociable.
She is sometimes rude to others.
She perseveres until the task is finished.
She can be tense.
She is sophisticated in art, music, or literature.
She is reserved.
She has a forgiving nature.
She can be somewhat careless.
She is emotionally stable, not easily upset.
She prefers work that is routine.